While in school at Eastern Illinois University, I belonged to Phi Sigma Pi, a co-ed national honor fraternity based on the tripod of scholarship, leadership and fellowship.
Those same three principles have become relevant topics during this Group Study Exchange trip, making the experience even more worthwhile.
But the ties between this Rotary excursion and my fraternity don’t end there. A line from one of our fraternal songs, “Brother,” has been stuck in my head for several days: “We started out as strangers, but now we’re more than friends. We’ve become a family that I know will never end.”
Those sentences as a good summation of our team, at least in my humble opinion. When I stop and think that seven months ago, Courtney, Nikki, Ericka and I were all complete strangers, it continues to baffle me; it seems like we’ve known each other forever.
During our final presentation to the Diss Rotary Club, Nikki pointed out that we’ve watched each other grow and develop. But not only have we grown as individuals; we’ve grown as a group. And while we’ll always be friends and have this shared experience, I for one hope the bonds of our friendship remain this strong for years to come.
The three girls have basically become like the sisters I’ve never had, and we each add something different to our group dynamic.
But I’d be remiss to not mention the final member of our little “family.” He’s been known as many different names throughout the trip, including Captain America and “the grandfather,” but no matter what people were calling him, Ron was there with us each step of the way.
I have to especially give him credit for keeping this blog alive during the second half of the trip. I’ve found myself facing computer and Internet problems that prevented me from posting too much, and our schedule has been jampacked, while my energy levels have been depleted. Thanks to Ron, we maintained new content on this site almost every day, and his efforts deserve to be recognized.
Now, here we are. About 48 hours from boarding the plane back home. Saturday will be bittersweet for all of us. On the one hand, we’re ready to return to the regular routines of life in Southern Illinois, but on the other, we’re leaving behind dozens of new friends and members of that new extended family.
We have plenty of offers on the table to return whenever we’d like, so who knows what the future will really hold. Maybe it’s time to check to job listings at the Eastern Daily Press…